Hello….can anybody see me!!????

Hello…..can anybody see me……..I am just here…….I am literally standing next to you………can you please just notice me, can you please just see ME…..not Mum, Not wife, Not Daughter, not Friend…..ME! ME! ME!

I feel INVISIBLE!

I feel LOST!

I feel UGLY!

I feel UNHEARD

I feel ALL the above and some more not mentioned!

I want to be noticed for all that I am, and all that I am going to be……. Just a little hint please that you can see my light would be so welcomed right now.

I have made my life all about loving, nurturing, protecting, providing un-conditional love for everyone around me. I have always felt that this was exactly as it should be, and why wouldn’t I!? They are after all the people I love dearest in the whole world. Why wouldn’t I want to give my all to them!?

But then why am I feeling so depleted of energy?

Why am I finding it so hard, some days, to feel that this is enough?

Why am I left feeling as if no one notices me unless I am doing something for them?

Why am I not their priority, why am I not their everything?

And then suddenly, I realise the answer to the questions above!

I AM NOT MAKING MYSELF A PRIORITY!

I AM NOT LOVING MYSELF ENOUGH!

I AM NOT ENSURING I REFILL MY CUP FREQUENTLY ENOUGH!

Because no one can make you feel all those things! You must start with yourself!

So, let’s look at that list again

I feel INVISIBLE! – What are you doing to SHINE your light bright! How are you showing up for yourself so your light is SO bright that everyone around you can’t help but notice it!?

I feel LOST! – How can you turn on your inner Sat Nav system, and update it! The mind is the most complex mechanism bar none! So, it makes sense that it regularly needs updating and ongoing support! How are you going to do that?

I feel UGLY! – Are you looking for the beautiful things that make you who you! Are you celebrating all that you bring to this world EVERY.SINGLE.DAY? Feeling beautiful is an inside job and it works its way outwards the more we look for it. How often are you looking, how often do you stop and notice your inner beauty?

I feel UNHEARD – In what ways do you want to be using your voice? How can you turn up the internal confidence and self-esteem thermostat, that will in turn give you the power to make your voice heard, so you can share the message YOU want to be sharing to all those that are ready to HEAR you!?

It is time to put yourself first!

It is time to make yourself a priority!

It is time for you to do the work, and (re)discover the amazing woman that is now ready to come alive! The woman that is ready to be all that she can and to be the BEST version of herself that she can be!

Are you ready? Drop me a message here so we can chat more.

I am looking forward to hearing from you

Steph x

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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